"I was gonna say, The problem is they know what matters, but they don't choose it. You know how hard that is, Lily? I love May, but it was still so hard to choose Caribbean Pink. The hardest thing on earth is choosing what matters." Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees This time of year as a therapist is perhaps one of the busiest. There is something about the holidays that bring a lot of issues to the surface that people finally decide to tackle. I suspect that the holidays bring us face to...